The game of love, relationships and dating
seems like a complicated matter
but really, it’s simple.
Let me break it down.
Girls and guys like all like to have fun and are NOT serious
especially for people under 25. (their all still young and naiive)
Pretty much every with dick or vagina just wants to get as much action as they can before they get married.
There are some exceptions, but it’s rare and do NOT think you are the exception.
Nowadays it’s all about playing the field
For some guys, it’s about scoring.
For some girls, it’s just excitment
and the feeling of being wanted that’s a sensation.
Some just keep their options open
in case of a late night bootycall or quick hookup due to boredom.
All people have a way with words, but
don’t blow it out of proportion.
Note: When the flirting is taking place at a party, club, rave or happy hour…98% of those people are just there to “get some”
If they dig ya, it’s going to be pretty darn obvious
(i.e. body language)
Just because the dude or chick walks by you
and glances you for one second doesn’t mean their checking you out.
If he asks for the time or a simple question of the sort
that doesn’t mean “I want to get in your pants”.
If you “accidently” trip or fall in front and the person asks if you’re OK
that doesn’t mean he wants to go out with you.
If you drop something and he/she stops to pick it up
it doesn’t mean their watching you’re every move.
If you see the person every where you go, haven’t you thought
it could be just a coincidence and
not that the person is stalking you because their secretly in love with you
OR you could just be pathetic and following them
convincing yourself their following you.
Especially if you go to school or work with the person
OF COURSE your going to run into them.
I mean even if he/she does flirt with you
don’t jump to conclusions and
start the “what if” rant and questioning every damn thing:
-what if he/she asks me out?
-what if we kiss?
-what if we have sex?
-what if we break up?
-what’s his last name if we ever get married?
-is he/she checking me out?
-what does he/she like about me because I’m “so unattractive”?
-is he/she “the one”?
Don’t start daydreaming about the future and that live happily ever after bullshit
because NOTHING HAS HAPPENED
Trust, it’s all talk, but bear with me,
NOR should you get cocky because their flirting with you
and you think “oh I’m the shit and everyone loves me because im SO hot”
Maybe their just “flirting” with you
because they perceive you as an easy because you act like a slut/whore.
Like I said body language, if you put yourself out their like a ho
you’re going to get treated like one so don’t expect any intimacy
because all the other person is thinking is sexsexsexsexsex
(or other sexual activites)
Some people are horny bastards that just want some instant gratification.
Haven’t you ever thought that someone
just wants a decent conversation?
Or they could just be teasing/being nice?
(this is used very often…trust me)
The truth hurts but sometimes people are just being nice
not because your “ugly” but that person just has no interest
so don’t cry and whine about it just wasn’t meant to be.
Don’t assume every flattering compliment or nice gesture
leads to “fate”.
It sounds a tad harsh, but save yourself some heartache.
If someone actually likes you and wants something more than just a hookup
they will actually TALK to you and not just say cheesy pickup lines so
you can fall head over heels into…their bed.
If you find out he doesn’t like you, don’t be mean. Be polite and Move on.
Know the difference between the player from an actual genuine person.
It’s all common sense.
you just got to use your head
and NOT rely on your damn feelings
If you think I’m wrong, you’re dumb.
This is life not a fairytale story.